今天收到一篇好友轉寄的文章,寫得非常好,感觸良多,有經過的朋友停下來看一看~
 
 
 
這才是人生                                                                                                           
                                                                                                                                                     
  曹興誠在台北演講時,有學生問他關於生涯規劃。                                                                                                       
  他答說一生從不生涯規劃! 只做好眼前"一兩年內的事"。                                                                                                 
                                                                                                                                                     
  十歲的我:面對天真的隔壁小女孩,她說:「大哥哥,長大後我要                                                                                         
                      嫁給你,我會對你好,以後你就會知道。」                                                                                         
                                                                                                                                                     
  二十歲的我:面臨聯考的挫折,只聽見父親說:「大頭,不努力考                                                                                         
                         上好學校,將來怎麼找到好工作,現在貪玩,以後你就                                                                            
                         會知道。」                                                                                                                  
                                                                                                                                                     
  三十歲的我:第一次相親,媒人告訴我:「小嬋是個好女孩,聰                                                                                           
                          明、孝順,會煮一手好吃的飯菜,娶了有幫夫運的她                                                                             
                          啊,會好運一輩子,以後你就會知道。」                                                                                       
                                                                                                                                                     
  四十歲的我:收到滿是紅色的體檢報告,醫師告訴我:「大頭先                                                                                           
                          生,你應該減少應酬,少抽煙喝酒,少吃肉類和生猛                                                                             
                          海鮮,多運動,作息要正常。你要再不好好保重自己                                                                             
                          的身體,以後你就會知道。」                                                                                                 
                                                                                                                                                     
  五十歲的我:喝了自己兒子的喜酒,鄰座的阿尚告訴我:「親家!                                                                                         
                          呷你恭喜呵!娶一個水(漂亮)媳婦,可是欠腳的媳婦                                                                             
                          能幹的媳婦難管,以後你就會知道。」                                                                                         
                                                                                                                                                     
  六十歲的我:參加了同學的葬禮。看到浮雲蒼狗,它彷彿告訴我:                                                                                         
                        「......以後你就會知道.......。」                                                                                            
                                                                                                                                                     
  現在的我:只擁有一本相本夾著幾張泛黃的照片;幾張忘記要寄                                                                                           
                      出、也不記得要寄給誰的情書;幾件參加過無數喜喪的                                                                               
                      西裝;一紙成績單包著數十年努力後的退休金;還有一                                                                               
                      直陪在自己身邊的老伴。                                                                                                         
                                                                                                                                                     
  我告訴我自己:「其實,你很富有;所以,把握當下,珍惜一切,                                                                                         
                               努力為人群去付出,至於以後,你根本不須知道。                                                                          
                                                                                                                                                     
  《忙的時候》:  想要休息;渡假的時候,想到未來。                                                                                                   
  《窮的時候》:  渴望富有;生活安逸了,怕幸福不能長久。                                                                                             
  《該決定的時候》: 擔心結果不如預期。看明白了,後悔當初沒有                                                                                        
                                       下定決心。                                                                                                    
                                                                                                                                                     
  《不屬於自己的》:常常心存慾望;                                                                                                                   
  《握在手裡了》:又懷念未擁有前的輕鬆。                                                                                                             
                                                                                                                                                     
  「生命若不是現在,那是何時?」                                                                                                                     
                                                                                                                                                     
  「能隨心所欲的去過生活,這才是 人生!」                                                                                                            
                                                                                                                                                     
  《路已盡頭,該轉彎了》                                                                                                                             
                                                                                                                                                     
  今天在報紙上看到一篇女生寫的文章,讓我感觸很深,她因為初戀的失敗,一直離不開失戀的痛苦而有輕生的念頭,在她想自殺的那一剎那,她看到了公車上有的一小 
  段詩,詩的內容就有這麼一句:                                                                                                                       
                                                                                                                                                     
  『不是路已走到盡頭,而是該轉彎了!』而讓她拋棄輕生的念頭。                                                                                         
                                                                                                                                                     
  最後她寫說:大二的我,被一個不速之客擾亂了平靜的生活卻也不經意的被另一個不速之客救贖了。生命中總有挫折,那不是盡頭,只是在提醒你,該轉彎了。       
                                                                                                                                                     
  『不是路已走到盡頭,而是該轉彎了!』這句話其實很有意思!當你遇到一件事,已無法解決,甚至是已經影響到你的生活、心情時,何不停下腳步,暫時的想一想是 
  否有轉寰的空間,或許換種方法,換條路走事情便會簡單點。但,通常在那一 刻,我們並來不及想到這些,是一昧的在原地踏步、繞圈,讓自己一直的陷在痛苦的深淵
  中,生命中總有挫折,那不是盡頭,只是在提醒你:                                                                                                     
                                                                                                                                                     
  《該轉彎了! 放手不代表承認失敗,放手只是為自己再找條更美好的路走!!》                                                                            
                                                                                                                                                     

                                                                                                                                                     

 
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